Amen. LJ is a relationship expert and a romantic gentleman. For the benefit of the blogosphere, I wish we had more time to spend attacking the subject. I will say a one thing: Ladies, if you have to read a book to figure out if your man wants to be with you, he doesn't.
UPDATE: How to tell you've found the perfect girl: she tells you she is just so driven, goal-oriented, passionate, successful and hardworking, that she just doesn't have time for a relationship.