QUESTIONS FOR LJ We get a few questions via email, especially on real estate, libertarian strategy, relationships and women. Here's one: "LJ, if I'm out should I buy a girl a drink?" LJ's response: We only buy by the bottle (if we are paying at all). Most probably you should get a bottle sent to her table to share with her friends. With that said, I think it's important to mention our top three locations to avoid meeting members of the opposite sex (if a meaningful relationship is what you seek): a bar, a club or the gym.